How to Make a Good First Impression

Within a matter of seconds, the person you meet for the first time will judge you and your abilities based on your appearance, your attitude, and your body language. And that's before you even open your mouth. A first impression can last a lifetime and influence the way others perceive you, interact with you and respond to you. And if you are meeting this person in a business environment, that first impression not only applies to you, but most likely to your company, as well. 

The rules are the same - whether you are meeting somebody socially or speaking to them in a meeting at work...you have about ten seconds to make a good first impression. Remember, actions speak louder than words.

First things first - take a deep breath so that you come across as calm and confident. And be yourself. If you are not at ease, chances are the person you meet will feel ill at ease. And remember, you're never fully dressed without a smile. A smile says that you are approachable and glad to make the acquaintance. And a smile is able to convey that message without you having to say a single word.

When you meet somebody for the first time, regardless of where you are, get on your feet and extend a hand. In fact, as soon as you see them approaching, get up. It's a non-verbal way of showing that you are looking forward to the introduction. If you are sitting behind a desk or table, coming out from behind the furniture to show that you trust and respect the person.

Give the person you are meeting the courtesy of looking them in the eye. If your eyes are wandering, you will give the impression that you are waiting for somebody else. Let the person know that they are the center of your attention by simply maintaining a connection with your eyes.

If you are truly interested and open to learning about and understanding the person you are meeting, your desire will come across in the first impression...be genuine, be real.

In Ty Boyd's Excellence in Speaking course participants learn that a speaker's toolbox is stocked with all of the essentials for powerful communication. Students are introduced to the tools and are given practical tips before putting each one of them to work during the course. The tools become their personal and professional relationship skills enabling them to communicate effectively in all areas of life - at work, at home, with friends and, of course, when they are making those important first impressions.

Much of what you need to make a good impression is common sense, but with a little extra help and guidance, you can make a good impression...great. Let Ty Boyd Effective Communication & Coaching put you on the right track.